Letting Go to Get Clear: FEEL!

What does it take? To give ourselves permission to be ... other than the culturally conditioned "self" we're taught to be? What does it take to give ourselves permission to feel ... other than the "appropriate" feelings at the "appropriate" time and length? What does it take to simply be ourselves, and tell the truth?

Living as a multifaceted, multidimentional being.

There is something magical that happens when I stay actively engaged in WEL-Systems® based conversations. Because we are multifaceted and multidimensional beings, there is no template on "how to" live life to the fullest. As such, we must come to make peace with the fact that living fully is a process that we must choose… Continue reading Living as a multifaceted, multidimentional being.

Letting Go, Acceptance and Surrender: Why it’s all so fucking difficult

We hang on when the pain of hanging on feels greater than the perceived pain of letting go. Sometimes, the pain of letting something go feels far greater than the pain of hanging on. So we hang on to the thing that, despite our deepest desire for it to be otherwise, is already done. A… Continue reading Letting Go, Acceptance and Surrender: Why it’s all so fucking difficult

What it takes to let go as a parent, and why we must!

It always, in all ways, starts with ME. There’s a lump in my throat as I type this, and the tears are just behind my eye lids…they don’t want to flow, they simply want to be there. There is an energetic ‘ball’ in my chest and my stomach feels activated. This is the information my… Continue reading What it takes to let go as a parent, and why we must!

Freedom Friday: Unveiling my truth, opening doors…

To stay in the story of what "should" have been would mean that I would have to deprive myself of my own life lessons, thus my own evolution. To stay in the story of what "should" have been would mean to stay in the habit and deny myself the truth of what is. To stay in the story of what "should" have been would mean to sacrifice what is for an idealized, imagined version that isn't. In essence, it would mean I betray the truth that lives inside of me in favour of the story; it would mean pretending, glossing over, shutting down. It would mean self-betrayal. And I don't live like that anymore. 

The Strategy of Lock-Down

I take everything that comes to my awareness as an opportunity for growth. Call it disease, call it discomfort, call it life, call it death, call it Covid-19. It really doesn’t matter. It’s all a messenger of how I’m choosing to live my life. And, it’s all an opportunity, in this breath, to make a different choice. An opportunity to make an expansive, meaningful choice that aligns with who and what I know mySelf to be.

The Paradox of Carefree Responsibility

In being responsible toward my Self (my calling, my being) I am carefree. Because the responsibility I integrate into my life is that of my choosing...and I'd have it no other way.  What I'm talking about here is an internally referenced source of responsibility. 

I Belong Here: Sacred Waste

There is something happening within me the last month or so that cannot be put into words. It isn't that I haven't tried --it's that it feels much too sacred to be able to express in language. I know this: in the expression of one of the most sacred creations of my life, I have… Continue reading I Belong Here: Sacred Waste