Reclaim YourSelf:
An invitation to become your own guide—no more performing, pleasing, or pretending.
The real question isn’t “Are you ready?”
It’s: Can you afford to wait any longer?
The data is in.
Safety, clarity, and self-trust are not luxuries.
They’re the new baseline for a life well lived.
You can’t out-think your nervous system.
If your life still feels off— even after the therapy, the books, the mindset work, it’s not because you’re broken.
It’s because your body is still running on old survival code.
Patterns wired by culture. Held in your breath. Triggered by daily moments you barely notice. But…
Who you have been is not who you are capable of becoming.
The past does not hold the answers to your future.
Your body does — it holds all the answers you are seeking.
All you have to do is discover them…
This work helps you live what you’ve always known was possible.
Our work together is not just about feeling better.
It’s about becoming someone who knows how to move through life’s hardest moments—without spiraling, second-guessing, or disappearing.
You’ll learn how to respond, not react—so you get connection, not collapse.
You want to stay calm and clear when things get heated. Not shut down. Not snap. Not say yes when you mean no. This work helps you meet those moments differently— with presence, clarity, and truth.
You’ll rebuild trust in yourself—so you stop spinning and start choosing.
You want to trust yourself.
To make decisions, set boundaries, and speak your truth—without second-guessing.
This work helps you hear your body clearly and stand in what’s true—guilt-free, grounded, and yours.
You’ll have a practical, repeatable process to return to—so growth sticks, not slips.
You want lasting change—not another quick fix. Not another cycle that fades.
This work gives you a process you can return to—again and again—when life gets loud and old patterns resurface.
This work isn’t just about fixing a problem.
It’s about shifting how you experience yourself—
so that life doesn’t feel like something you have to manage, but something you get to live.
Because the answers you’re seeking?
They’re not out there. They’re already within you.
We’ll uncover them together—gently, powerfully, and on your terms.
Meet your guide
Stela Murrizi
You need someone on your side who understands that you are not broken or in need of fixing.
In my 37 years of life on this planet, I have lived through what feels like multiple lives. So I know what expansion is possible for you because I live it.
My job, as I see it, is to help you discover the process that leads to a mindset shift about who and what you are so you get CLEAR about what matters to you and how to live it – without breaking the budget – and without ever taking another self-help course or reading another “how to” book.
Curious about my story? Check it out here.
Kind words about working with me…
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Stela was the right fit coach for me because she is smart, brave, and devoted to this body of knowledge as a way to live. She has the technical knowledge and confidence to notice, invite, challenge, and hold firm in conversations that may be intense, but lead to great revelations and shifts in perspective. I am good at lying to myself. Stela challenges what feels ‘off’ to her and holds space for me to own my stories and choose: run the pattern or live differently?
Jennifer Hatt
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I no longer wanted quick fixes that provided short-term relief. I was seeking true transformation—something with a greater impact. After just a few months of engaging with the WEL-Systems® body of knowledge, my life has exploded with clarity and alignment. AND, I wanted more. With Stela as my coach and context leader, I trusted the entire process and allowed my true Self to emerge. It felt incredible! After this immersive experience, I felt my consciousness expand beyond what I had imagined...
Celine Burlock
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Stela is simply extraordinary as a coach. She is the godForce embodied, wisdom, calm, ultimate generosity and intelligence speaking to, and uncovering that place in me. She is that self realized and courageous soul that dares to see your truth call you up on it. There are no words to express my gratitude and knowing Stela. I know she can hold me in complete safety and take me where I want to go.
Randi White
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Stela sees and challenges my BS. I know 'not now' very well. Now, I see and hear myself more often. In fact, I cannot NOT see myself anymore …
Claudine Loiselle
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During the coaching and the everyday messages through Telegram I have evolved so much. I can now say that I am the godForce and that itself says so much about the impact Stela’s coaching has had on me. I have come to understand how listening to my body and breathing gives me insights of my truth, and helps me speak with clarity and courage. There is so much more layers I have begun to see and most beautifully integrate instead of pushing it out or stuffing it in.
Neetha Mary
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Stela is a brave human being, unafraid to explore the depth and shadow of what it is to be human. She is a responsible adult, which is rare these days. I can count on Stela to be asked daring questions for growth. Stela is incredibly supportive, straightforward, brilliant, unapologetically provocative. I recognized in her the wounded healer, she walks the talk! Thank you for shining your light.
Frederique Suriya
WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER
Self-Directed Evolution
Decloaking and Living Authentically audio course
For the curious woman who’s ready to explore a new way of living, at her own pace.
You’ll find mind-opening revelations.
You'll discover what you didn’t know you didn’t know—and feel seen in ways you never expected.
This is the gateway to understanding the framework and feeling the pull to go deeper.
One-on-One Coaching
five weeks of deep & intimate coaching
For the woman who’s ready for personal guidance and real-time support to integrate this work into her daily life.
This is where you apply what you’ve learned in the audio course.
You’ll start making sense of your body’s messages and unravel what gets in the way.
You’ll feel stronger, steadier, and more equipped to lead your life from within.
Decloaking Intensive
Live Immersive 5-Day Group Experience
For the woman who knows it’s time. She’s ready to go all in—no more hiding, no more waiting. Just truth, transformation, and a total recalibration.
You’ll experience a life-altering shift in how you relate to your body, your mind, your relationships, and your truth.
This five-day portal is a complete interruption of your old story—and the beginning of who you’re here .
Feeling stuck in patterns you can’t explain?
Take This Quiz to Uncover the Survival Strategy You Learned Growing Up
If you’ve ever wondered why you react the way you do, why you hold back, overgive, stay quiet, or push too hard — it’s not because something is wrong with you.
It’s likely a survival strategy you picked up early in life.
It is not who you are — just what helped you get through.
This short quiz helps you uncover that hidden adaptation, so you can finally understand what’s been driving you… and start explore what to do, instead.
Just answer instinctively — go with what feels most true, even if it depends on the situation. Your body knows.
LOVE READING?
Explore my most cherished pieces…
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How CODE Model Coaching transforms lives
“I am the first of my long line ancestors afforded the freedom to be able to choose, to create my life in whichever way it is meaningful for me in each unfolding moment. What a gift I have given mySelf — one I am eternally grateful for and intend to honour, as if my life depends on it, because it does.”
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Dear Declan: A love letter to my son
“I am choosing to write these letters and post them publicly because I know I am not alone in what I see unfolding “out there”. I know I am not the only mother who is deeply concerned. And… I know that I choose not to hide in the closet, pretending, because there is no power there.”
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Transcending A Life of Mediocrity
“What else is possible when you embrace the fundamental lie that plagues our global cultural beliefs? Everything is peachy out there and if you feel anything but numb to all the (utterly indisputable) bullshit, then there’s something wrong with you.”
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How this process changes lives
“Today, I know well that the past does not serve me. It helped shape me, it has provided me with an opportunity to learn more about myself, and it does not define me. I know, with every single breath, I can choose choices that serve me, as I am, in this moment.”
