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Lost & Frozen in Fear
Have you learned to not want, because wanting got you in trouble? Perhaps you ‘freeze’ when you think about your life and your needs. You literally go blank.
You believe no one wants to hear what you have to say, so what’s the point of wanting if you can never get it, anyway?
It’s just easier when you’re alone. Less disappointment.
The problem with this is that, over time, you disappear from your own life.
You wait, and you linger, until someone gives you permission (of course, no one does). Eventually, you disappear … and wonder: will anyone even notice?
Remember — this is not who you are but merely a strategy you picked up to keep you safe.
“good girl” conditioning is pervasive in your life.
Take heart — it’s not just you!
Women have been intergenerationally taught to value “being nice” over being authentic (aka boundaried).
In fact, we have been taught to ignore any inner cues that hint at truth. In doing so, we have learned to live confused, second-guessing ourselves and feeling powerless to own our choices.
My point is – this isn’t unique to you. It is true for all women everywhere.
What’s unique to you is how you’ve internalized this conditioning.
So, what’s next?!
Explore the dreaded B-WORD conversation: Boundaries.
Join us for this five day bootcamp exploring all things boundaried living.
This is not yet another passive workshop – this is a five day challenge intended to provoke your thinking about yourself.
Because continuing to buy into the “being nice” mindset has a deadly personal cost.