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The results of the quiz show:

Keep -it-together Perfectionist

Have you noticed that no matter what you do, it is never enough? Someone is always displeased and disappointed. 

Trying so hard has led you on the edge of depletion, perhaps even to disease of body, mind and spirit. 

But, there you are … trying to keep it all together  as it is all falling apart. You want to control it, to manage it, to make it better. So you insert yourself and make it known that you know what you’re talking about. 

And… for a thousand different reasons that you’re trying to keep track of, it’s simply not working out as it should. 

The belief system that lives underneath this type of thinking? You are responsible for getting ish-done because no one else can or no one else will – certainly no one else can do it as well as you. 

The problem with this? You are running on depletion. You are also lacking in trust because you don’t believe anyone will live up to your expectations (they can’t!). Taking everything on is not just overwhelming you, but it is also taking away the opportunity for another to shine. How’s that for a platform of perpetual guilt?!

Remember — this is not who you are but merely a strategy you picked up to keep you safe.

The results of this quiz show you:

“good girl” conditioning is pervasive in your life. 


Take heart — it’s not just you!

Women have been intergenerationally taught to value “being nice” over being authentic (aka boundaried). 

In fact, we have been taught to ignore any inner cues that hint at truth. In doing so, we have learned to live confused, second-guessing ourselves and feeling powerless to own our choices.  

My point is – this isn’t unique to you. It is true for all women everywhere

What’s unique to you is how you’ve internalized this conditioning.

So, what’s next?!

Explore the dreaded B-WORD conversation: Boundaries.

Join us for this five day bootcamp exploring all things boundaried living.

This is not yet another passive workshop – this is a five day challenge intended to provoke your thinking about yourself.

Because continuing to buy into the “being nice” mindset has a deadly personal cost.