Kind words about working with me…
Here are a few things that I have come to know about Stela over these last years. There are many words I could use to describe who I have come to know her to be: fierce… courageous… fearless… unrelenting… edgy. She hears and sees things and is unwilling to look away and pretend that she does not. Her grasp of this WEL-Systems® body of knowledge is broad and deep; her trust in the natural unfolding of its expression is without question. All of these are formidable and compelling and immensely powerful in the dance of perpetual evolution for its own sake. What makes me trust her with my life and yours… trust without question both her willingness and ability to stand with me as I take a stand for myself… is the depth of her compassion and caring. Her willingness to stay… present and engaged… without judgment and without the need to protect herself.
Such immense RIG for herSelf and others… and all of it, expressing in wave after wave after wave of her own great joy in this Life-altering journey of discovery! Does not get much better than that.
Louise LeBrun (Founder of the WEL-Systems Institute)
Stela, I was honoured to be a part of your first Decloaking and Living Authentically. You fucken rock! Your awareness of the little parts of us that hide, YOU reveal.
You stayed present to what was moving through me and my boundary. You stayed present to yourself during what it called up in you. I hear Louise (LeBrun) say often: as CODE Model Coaches, the people we engage with can only grow to the level WE allow OURSELVES to grow, reveal and be seen, and you, Stela, demonstrated fearlessness within your growth! A sense of curiosity within yourself and within me.
Really this was a magical moment for me and because of that, my life is different. Your willingness, and fearlessness, helped me and I want people to know that.”
– Karina Evangelista (2023)
I attended a six day residential WEL-Systems Retreat with Stela as facilitator. This experience was the highlight of my life! Stela is simply extraordinary as a coach. She is the godForce embodied, wisdom, calm, ultimate generosity and intelligence speaking to, and uncovering that place in me. She is that self realized and courageous soul that dares to see your truth call you up on it. There are no words to express my gratitude and knowing Stela. I know she can hold me in complete safety and take me where I want to go.
-Randi White (2022)
I have been sitting this morning with … what the hell happened this past week? It feels like a lifetime ago that I filled my Beetle with aware and awake women and engaged in daily transformation with our powerful group. So much in so little time, it feels easy to dismiss or glide by, until I pause and open … darkness becomes universe, filled with energy, peppered with stars…
My recent Decloaking experience was a rebirth of my life in the quantum paradigm, pushed this time from a foundation solidified by knowledge I invited and allowed to penetrate, models and structures I labelled as ‘Newtonian strategies’ that in fact draw me deeper into mySelf and my own awareness. I am a prolific storyteller, and for years even as I evolved as a quantum being in a human experience, I have used storytelling to dim my light, slow my progress. Why? Deeply held cultural beliefs that I was ‘too much’, beliefs that I have fiercely defended and railed against for most of my life, a brilliant and exhausting start-stop that kept me spinning in place under the illusion of progress.
This morning, I embrace the strengthening wind, feel the sturdiness and quiet of my home as a metaphor of my safety within, invite the energy of the gathering storm as a reflection of my own gathering strength.
I have spent the morning with emails and messages from folks inquiring how I am, how was my week, and each has been a marvellous invitation to sit with my experience, write what comes up. Some of what I’m sharing here I’ve shared with others. Some is unique to what I’m feeling now, in your presence.
It for me was a week of brilliant moments that erased the walls between ‘good’ and ‘bad’, ‘right’ and ‘wrong’. The delight of breaking through concrete, releasing stories, coming home … the joy of good food and waterfront views and each other’s company … the dark pressure of repressed rage … the agony of cracking open family systems and ‘sacred’ beliefs … the slimy caress of constant dampness in a rental property once beautiful and now crumbling as a hostage to greed, and allowing ourselves to be hostage to our stories within it … the terror and frustration of not being heard in a paradigm in which we have little power, reminding ourselves of the power we do hold in the paradigm of infinity … all of it I now feel in a seamless experience in which I am continually transformed, breath by breath. I wouldn’t change a thing. I do choose, however, NOT to repeat it all again 🙂
I know different and choose accordingly.
I lived and released a lifetime in the five-day experience. I lived and released another lifetime in my two days with you, Stela. Every breath, every moment, a mindful presence in our ongoing journeys … powerful and awesome … I thank you with the deepest of RIG for it all.
Quick summary for all: there was gorgeous vistas and ocean swimming and an afternoon at my beloved monastery and a morning of transformation in a thrift store (plus a new wardrobe for me at the grand cost of $60) and endless conversation that ebbed and flowed as effortlessly as the tide …Mahalo and much RIG to you, Stela, for being fiercely you and fiercely committed to all who choose to step into their own power … completely unfuckwithable … a gift to us all.
This is all my experience, of course, and it continues to remind me of the power of our engagements and the mindful moments they create. What started for me as a Zoom call a couple of years ago has blossomed into these lived experiences that in turn fuel new powerful creations through lenses clearer, sharper, wider, ever changing.
Today that looks like me sitting here writing to you. In a few moments, it will look like me sitting with my coffee on my deck … literally, on my deck since the furniture has been stowed for the ‘storm’ … watching the blue sky dance with the clouds and feeling the breath of the world, warm and fierce.
So much energy flowing through me and tears for the gratitude, RIG (respect, integrity and generosity of Spirit) and love towards you right now. Thank you for seeing me. I want to say YES!!! YES, YES, YES! I am so happy to be able to join Crones AND Decloaking! This is what I wanted, so much, and here it is. Wow. The beauty of how this co-creation came into being is just sending shivers down my spine. I know I am in the right place. And yes, I want to say again, I do have deep RIG for your creations. I can stand firmly in my own experience and say, you, Stela, have changed my life. You have added tremendous value to my life. When I found you at the retreat I wept in your arms because I felt that I had come home. What you offer is like nothing and no one I have ever experienced before. I have found meaning and expansion and awakening in your offerings. Louise (LeBrun) says you can’t give what you don’t have. You have all those things, that is why you can create the experiences that propel women towards the expansion, meaning and awakening that you carry so strongly and soundly in your body. You are magnificent and you are my beautiful friend. I am so proud and grateful to be one of those women, unfurling into her potential. I thought life was an experience to be suffered and prayed often that it would end as quickly as possible for me. Today I experience true joy in my waking moments. Something they told me could never be, and yet here it is nonetheless. They said it couldn’t be done, and yet I did it…..with you and Sheila (Winter Wallace) and Lousie (LeBrun) guiding me even when I couldn’t see it, even when I didn’t want it. How do I say thank you? How does it truly get any better than that?
Anila Rehman (2023)
I was hoping for a way out of something I didn’t understand but it was all pervasive throughout my all parts and times of my life.
I feel like I had been living a life in which I had little to no control or power.
I felt defenseless against the waves that washed over me and tumbled my life any which way without warning. Drowning me.
I was looking for an end to the pain that was a chronic condition for me. I had for several years now been waking up with and going to sleep with an intense anxiety gripping my insides. Rat in a cage.
All the things I had tried, all the places I had been, all the way I changed and changed and changed again were still not “it”, I never made it out.
I don’t know what the answer was, a miracle or a cure or just put me out of my misery please?
What I wanted was real avenue out of the mess of my very existence. What I got is a whole other email that I’m working on lol.
But I was at the point that something HAD to work, something HAD to give or else….. Actually I was at the point that it BETTER give ….and it did.
I DID find my road out of perdition. Sometimes life just felt like that… an endless, horrifying hellscape. I had heard in the healing world that universe was made of bliss and peace, but my physical and emotional experience here on earth was of one of no peace anywhere. An endless state of pain, failures, crises, punishment and shame.
Decloaking was the first time the concepts of bliss, peace, safety, freedom became real for me. In realizing what’s really going on in me and out there, I felt for the first time free and powerful in my life. I really am a creator of reality, like really actually its not just an esoteric concept, and I saw how I do it too…
Hope this is meaningful, but let me know what you are using this for, because if it’s for a testimonial I am actually almost done writing one I’ve been working on! I can incorporate some of this free flow writing, but the one I’m working on is probably going to make you blush as it is haha!
PS. Did I mention you are The Goddess of Decloacking?
Thanks for reading!
Now, I invite you to come play with us, and discover …
who you are beyond the stories of who you’ve been told you should be
your innate capacity for transformation through the intelligence of the body
the cloaks you carry, unaware of their existence
the intelligence of the habituated strategies you’ve developed to stay safe
a new a process that allows you to reclaim your wholeness
the power of being witnessed in your vulnerability, uninterrupted
the power of the choice point
safety is an inside job
how to reclaim intimacy with your best friend: your Self
the transformative power of a full and conscious breath
how to take back your life
Why talk to me?
I know how the structure of our mind works.
I know that my history does not define you, but is an invitation to your greatness.
I know how to decipher the message of the pain, disease, discomfort.
I know how the body works.
I know what I AM (we each are) as a quantum-biological being of light!
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