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This is where share my life’s discoveries through stream of consciousness writings, blogs & poems; educational soundbites & videos; resources & experiences coming up; journal prompts & questions intended to educate you to a different paradigm of being.
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Accelerated Evolution: A WEL-Systems® Approach
Together in conversation in The Joy of Decay Podcast with Tessa Rae, we explore topics that matter to women’s souls. We talk about our journey through WEL-Systems® experiences, decloaking to ourselves and living authentic lives, parenting, the power of the Crone, grief, intimacy, provocation to expand beyond our limits, and so much more! Have a listen …
I call on the Mothers: Embrace Your Inner Wise Woman
Women, mothers to the creation of Life, give a shit. Because of that, it falls on us to awaken, embody and express from the matriarchal consciousness that demands we let go of what isn’t working and engage DIFFERENTLY.
Transition Time: From captive to creator
Here’s my promise to you: if you keep doing what you’re doing, believing what you believe, you’ll keep creating what you’re creating. Every choice you make either maps to your history and limitation, or to your potential and expansion. Why? Because that’s how choice works – if you don’t know how to choose from your Emerging Authentic Self, then you are trapped in seeking to create change from your culturally conditioned self. Yikes! Not only not fun at all, but also impossible.
Leveraging the Genius of the Moment
Surrendering to the wave of information that the body carries in the moment you are in will invite and allow the body to do what it’s designed to do: process information! You trust your body to process food without you telling a story about it, don’t you? It’s the exact.same.thing with emotions (energy in motion).
To Reclaim Your Life: Reclaim your personal power
How to integrate the layers upon layers of cultural conditioning that is intended to keep you small and externally referenced.
Redefining Leadership: Permission to trust your senses
Have you ever noticed how different your internal state is from that which you present to the world? What I mean by this is that women are taught to silence our visceral truth in favour of appropriateness, politeness, and compliance with the cultural status-quo.
Truth is, #allwomen are conditioned to live this way, which is why a congruent no seems to be the hardest word in the English dictionary for women to own.
The Illusion of Choice when Living Below the Choice-Point: Instead, leap into authenticity!
The problem is that from this paradigm of the world where reality is external and fixed, choosing becomes an illusion.
Think about this: if what you’re doing is choosing from what you already have, are you really choosing to manifest? Or are you choosing to comply? If you mistake choice for options, then you will be trapped in the illusion of choice, yet your life your never change.
Bread & Shame: What do they have in common?!
Shame is culture’s most powerful weapon because it works. In the last Igniting Your Potential monthly gathering, I found myself saying something along the lines of “parents intentionally choose shame as a tool in order to control their children’s behaviour”.
Transcending A Life of Mediocrity: What else is possible?!
You see, that’s the fundamental lie that plagues our global cultural beliefs. Everything is peachy out there and if you feel anything but numb to all the (utterly indisputable) bullshit, then there’s something wrong with you.
How Your Hurry Becomes Their Lifelong Worry: An invitation to slow down
As my brain starts this nonsense chatter, I notice. I realized as I’m engaging in this habitual and familiar process of “hurry up, we have to go”, the effect of that is causing my son to speed up. Yikes!
The gift of giving myself permission to notice became my invitation to slow down. To mindfully and intentionally take three deep breaths before I tell him to move along. In that nanosecond, both our lives transform …
When Our Courage Outweighs Our Terror, Magic Happens!
Yes, the fear of taking responsibility over our own lives is massive. In a world that conditions us to live soap opera lives, deeply committed to how “right” we are, the conversations I facilitate from the WEL-Systems paradigm become the pattern interrupt we all need to begin to notice that we are not doomed… we can, if we choose to, become the protagonists of our own lives, response-able to create the reality we are meant to be living.
What if … we are all, already whole?
But how can you make congruent choices when you don’t know how else to listen? My job is to ask you questions that will provoke you to see something you have never seen before. It is to educate you to an alternative paradigm of being so that you discover how powerful you are when you intentionally own the territory of your body and mind by getting to know who and what you are as a quantum-biological being. Science says so, why not choose to reclaim it for yourself today?
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Transition Time: From captive to creator
Prefer to listen? Do so here. Also, subscribe to my podcast on Spotify to get updates! Have you ever felt hostage to your “reality”? I know I sure have. The more I free myself from the infinite layers of cultural conditioning that takes my nervous system hostage...
CODE Model Coaching™: It’s about how you choose, not the choice itself
A few days ago I received an email from a client in my Unapologetically Unfuckwithable yearlong experience in which she revealed to me the truth of her experience about being coached by me. It wasn’t an easy email for her to write, of that I’m certain. Yet her courage...
A Mother’s Internal Cues Matter to Our Children’s Evolution
How a mother's internal cues matter to our children's evolution. While listening to this short video by Dr. Gabor Matte called “The trauma of abandonment”, I heard him say: “For the child to feel wanted, the mother has to be emotionally happy. The mother has to be...
The Subtle Art of Self-Manipulation
Prefer to listen over reading? Here you go. Self-manipulation is an interesting thing. It is so easy to never have to notice, because, of course, there are far too many external manipulations going on -- all of which are easier to notice than those we have...
Unlock Your True Potential: Redefining the way we see ourselves holds the key to freedom
In this world, and not of it ... Before you delve into this piece, consider inside yourself: What do you believe is a human being? Ancient civilizations have long known what modern-day science has determined and continues to support: we are quantum-biological beings....
Dear Declan: A love letter on your third birthday
https://open.spotify.com/episode/3zduICUxhRXQEeDrOsg32V?si=f9b19718da9c466a For those who prefer to listen rather than read, here you go! Dear Declan, Today you turn three. I have spent the last few weeks pushing aside any notion of three, waiting for the day to come....
Dear Declan: Pay attention, differently
https://open.spotify.com/episode/5GPCedoeW7DyHxBJRHyY8l?si=c8e0270f32114731 For those who prefer to hear the passion in my voice when it comes to this piece, I encourage you to listen as I read it. My dear, sweet boy, I have started writing some of these letters to...
WEL-Systems® conversations: The ticket to freedom
Prefer to listen rather than read? Click below.The WEL-Systems® experiences that I facilitate and participate in are not courses or programs; they are experiences. Their purpose is individualized integration of the historical habits that keep us stagnated in a...
Choice: The bridge between the past and the future
https://open.spotify.com/episode/4mQCTM0mn4iImr2dhb5EDh?si=uDhiKv9zR4mn94YRZwqZEw For those of you who prefer to hear me read this post, here you go. I am profoundly aware of the fact that there are lots of different ways to see and move through the world. Like most...
I call on the Mothers: Embrace Your Inner Wise Woman
I believe the future of the world is in the hands of women. Women, mothers to the creation of Life, deeply care. Because of that, it falls on us to awaken, embody, and express from the matriarchal consciousness that demands we let go of what isn't working and engage...
The Joy of Darkness
?Let's take a journey, immersed in the darkThe deep, The mysterious. That's where the bottomless joy is found. Where the raging fire of all that was ever caused you pain Is alchemized into peace and possibility. Tranquility. Where the pitch black infinite...
Letting Go, Acceptance and Surrender: Why it’s all so fucking difficult
We hang on to what "is" when the pain of hanging on feels greater than the perceived pain of letting go. Sometimes, the pain of letting something go feels far greater than the pain of hanging on. So we hang on to the thing that, despite our deepest desire for it to be...
I am not a therapist: I am a CODE Model Coach™, and here’s how it’s different
As a CODE Model Coach™, I am constantly in pursuit of my own evolution. Because of that, I trust that the people who come in my life are there as aspects of my consciousness to awaken me to a deeper layer of self-exploration yet unexplored. Recently, I found myself...
What it takes to let go as a parent, and why we must!
It always, in all ways, starts with ME. There’s a lump in my throat as I type this, and the tears are just behind my eye lids…they don’t want to flow, they simply want to be there. There is an energetic ‘ball’ in my chest and my stomach feels activated. This is the...
Biodigital Convergence Report, The Canadian Government & The New (Trans)Human
Writing this post was not an easy task for me. It has taken me four full days to write, and there is still so much more I want to contextualize. Still, here it is for you to engage with. Know that by engaging in reading this post, you are choosing to take the red pill...
Sovereignty. That’s what women want most.
Sovereignty. That is the answer to the question what do women want most. But, what is that? What does it mean to be sovereign? Sovereignty is a power sourced from within. It is a power sourced from our connection to our Self (our body, our earth, nature, heart, all...
Revelations of Truth, Information In Flow, Quantum TLC™
As I sit here covered with my grandmother's blanket on my couch, I realize just how much energy it takes to access and bring to awareness deeply burried truths...Truths I've been carrying since my mother's womb. Truths I'd rather look away from. Truths within boxes...
Declan’s Birth Story: When my Story Became His-Story??
A few months ago I decided to participate in a writing contest of birth stories facilitated by the Doula Support Foundation. I won an honourable mention, so that's pretty awesome! Still, for me, it was the invitation to write the story that mattered most. It allowed...
If climate collapse was the legacy of baby boomers, is global authoritarianism ours?
This will be a two-part blog post. In this one, I focus more on our collective predicament, fuelled by fear. In the next, on my experience with the strategy of warrior, unbeknown to me, also fuelled by fear. Contemplating a full moon in Aries last night while in Libra...
Feedback Loops: Cultivating Personal Responsibility is a Sacred Act
It's always someone else's fault... What does it mean to take ownership of one's actions, and therefore life? What does it mean to take responsibility when we un/intentionally cause harm? These are some of the questions percolating through my mind today as I am...
When the Illusion Seems Real: Albania Then & Covid Now
I was in the process of preparing for facilitating my third monthly Decloaking conversation when my parents came to visit. The "theme" of the conversation this month was exploring how the nervous system works, how it is wired, and how that wiring impacts who we know...
How do I Choose to Live My Life Today?
Every day I get to wake up and decide: How do I choose to live my life today? Do I choose to know myself as mere flesh OR do I choose to know myself as quantum Signal animating the physical? Do I choose to conceptualize my body as mechanical OR do I choose...
The Strategy of Lock-Down
Before I get into my piece today, I want you to know that when I am called to write, I write. The inspiration always comes from somewhere -- something I'm reading, listening to, or watching. Something that expands my context for living. Something that invites me to...
Shape or Be Shaped By Your World: The Structure of Reality & Truth
In this post I share with you the explorations moving through me in this moment about deconstructing the constructs of mind that shape that which we perceive to be real and true. If what I am writing about does not seem familiar to you, I encourage you to stay with it...
Wounded Masculine: The Silent Pain Of Toxic Masculinity
The Messages of Patriarchy to Men As I was scrolling through my phone looking for a photo, I came across an old video I had made for my parents' birthday (dad turned 60, mom 50). It's a beautiful compilation of picture collages accompanied by personally meaningful...
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