Begin to value the boundary of: I am unwilling to pretend. And the quality of your life will be your reward. But, good girls don’t …

Has walking on eggshells become a way of life …?

Your capacity to live an incredible life starts with your unwillingness to live in misery.

During my first session with Stela, I distinctly remember the words she said to me… “This is a safe space…Your safety is very important…” I knew instinctively I was not just in the right place but in a compassionate and considerate space. This was a new experience for me.

That is the power of a paradigm shift... in exploring and discovering that I AM far more than I have ever been led to believe, our potential awakens and we thrive!

Fecund Darkness is a work of art. It is a creation of love. It is an expression of that which is meaningful and life-enriching, captured in stream of consciousness writing. It is a creation intended to provoke and inspire. Because what lives on the other side of provocation is inspiration — to live a life that is enriched with the wholeness of being that is our birthright.

Are you looking for a different process than the familiar self-loathing that feeds perceived powerlessness? If so, read on ...

We are NOT addicted to any ‘thing’- we are addicted to the relief that allows us to continue to deny the festering sore.

Decloaking and Living Authentically is a process about a paradigm shift toward knowing ourSelves differently. But it goes beyond that, because it is a conversation intended to educate you to your potential.

At that moment, I found myself feeling totally disoriented and confused, as if the time / space continuum had shifted and, somehow, did not apply to me. 

As I type this, I find myself realizing that …this is how it feels when one awakens to an alternative reality they were not prepared for, yet there it is. 

This is how it feels when we are so certain that we know what we know and then are exposed to a different reality that shows us otherwise.

This is how it feels when we live cloaked inside our worldview, resisting “the unknown” to penetrate because we would rather feel like we already know.

I think this is the state we are desperately seeking to avoid ever feeling. Because it’s disorienting. Because it’s confusing. Because it’s uncertain. 

And our cultural conditioning has taught us that uncertainty = dangerous. This makes sense when we are four and left to fend for ourselves, however, it becomes an anchor of a double-bind that keeps us unable to differentiate.