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“Walking into the fire”: The Gift of Being Called Out (With Love, But No Bullshit)
At some point within the first 24 hours, something cracked.
It wasn’t a breakdown.
It wasn’t a single moment.
It was more like a slow unraveling—
A loosening of the grip I didn’t even know I had.
And when the realization hit, it hit hard:
I was still apologizing for existing.
A Compassionate and Provocative Approach to Self-Discovery
Are you seeking a comprehensive and holistic approach to self-discovery? I guide women to reclaim the quality of their mind, body, and spirit, creating meaningful, intentional lives by helping them discover their inner potential. Through WEL-Systems-based experiences, explore a transformative journey that is not found anywhere else.
“That is the most powerful gift I have ever received.”
I have done a lot of deep inner work, but nothing—nothing—has ever cracked me open quite like Decloaking with Stela. This wasn’t just another coaching session, self-help program, or course—it was a soul-level activation.
The power of an intentional pause & reset.
Discover the power of the intentional pause in helping you create your meaningful life.
The path of Truth is not for everyone.
The best things in life come to us when we least expect them, yet are fully open to receive. Do you know what I mean?
Authenticity, Power and Impact
Want to be powerful? Keep your attention on yourself. Inward is the place of power. When my attention is focused on me, I have no one to blame. I am left fully at cause for my life, my creations, my internal state. Paradoxically, it is only when I focus inside of me that I have the impact I am seeking out there.
Wear your heart on your sleeve!
Begin to value the boundary of: I am unwilling to pretend. And the quality of your life will be your reward. But, good girls don’t …
“My life has exploded with clarity and alignment”
After this immersive experience, I felt my consciousness expand beyond what I had imagined... I was stepping into the greatest adventure of all: discovering my true potential—my own Magic! The quantum world of my own internal elixir.
Following the trail Home to yourSelf: One woman’s story
During my first session with Stela, I distinctly remember the words she said to me… “This is a safe space…Your safety is very important…” I knew instinctively I was not just in the right place but in a compassionate and considerate space. This was a new experience for me.
Living the Transformation You Seek
Are you looking for a different process than the familiar self-loathing that feeds perceived powerlessness? If so, read on ...
Some of my most cherished pieces…
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How CODE Model Coaching transforms lives
“I am the first of my long line ancestors afforded the freedom to be able to choose, to create my life in whichever way it is meaningful for me in each unfolding moment. What a gift I have given mySelf — one I am eternally grateful for and intend to honour, as if my life depends on it, because it does.”
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Dear Declan: A love letter to my son
“I am choosing to write these letters and post them publicly because I know I am not alone in what I see unfolding “out there”. I know I am not the only mother who is deeply concerned. And… I know that I choose not to hide in the closet, pretending, because there is no power there.”
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Transcending A Life of Mediocrity
“What else is possible when you embrace the fundamental lie that plagues our global cultural beliefs? Everything is peachy out there and if you feel anything but numb to all the (utterly indisputable) bullshit, then there’s something wrong with you.”
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How this process changes lives
“Today, I know well that the past does not serve me. It helped shape me, it has provided me with an opportunity to learn more about myself, and it does not define me. I know, with every single breath, I can choose choices that serve me, as I am, in this moment.”