It is in the flow of intensity presenting that life unfolds. It is in the flow of the information moving that truth can be revealed. It is in feeling the intensity that so much information moves and you begin to, finally, feel free. Because it takes immense amounts of energy to sustain intense energy in place. The intensity doesn't go anywhere, it simply manifests differently. Would you rather feel your feelings or get cancer? It really is that simple. 

If you want to be a bad ass sexually empowered woman, embrace your inner hag. That’s right. The crone. The ancient woman. The witch. The hag.

And that's when I realized voting with my feet is far more powerful than trying to explain or rationalize or make clear through words. Voting with my feet, with no explanation given, is far more potent in communicating: I am done. Voting with my feet empowers me out of my habituated freeze or fight response. Voting with my feet feels immesely powerful.

This is a conversation about intimacy with ourSelves.It is a conversation about how to become so fine tuned to our own internal cues that nothing else matters.It is a conversation about paying attention to the cues as they move, value and judgement free.It is a conversation about letting go of the stories, socializations and strategies that keep us confined to a boxed-in version of who a "good woman" should be.It is a conversation about noticing and claiming the penetration of patriarchal mindsets in every nook and cranny of our existence. It is about beginning to wake up, and pay attention, differently.  

When we pretend they are the person they show the world to be, that makes us who know the truth of who they are, ladies and gentlemen, responsible for protecting the predator.