Revelations &

Choice Points

“It’s not our intellect or our knowledge that will change our lives; it is our willingness and ability to ENGAGE!”

Louise LeBrun

Stela Murrizi looking at the camera.

BINGE ON THE BLOG

BINGE ON THE BLOG —

A Joy-Full Mother's Day

A Joy-Full Mother's Day

Instead of teaching our children WHAT to think, let's teach them HOW to think!We have become really good at teaching (through modeling) the content of our culture to our children. Be polite and say thanks, even if you don't mean it. Otherwise, to speak the truth of your experience (not-thankful) is to be considered rude. So... we teach our children to be insincere and live in contradictory internal states so they don't offend another. We teach them to be dishonest so they can manage an external appearance labeled "polite" and "good". We teach them to shun their truth so they do not have to face the shame imposed on them by authority.In essence, we teach our children that shunning themselves is better than living in fear of being shamed by another.I can't help but wonder ....what is the intelligence of that?! What is the fucking point?! How can we expect our children to grow up to be sincere inside themselves if we are teaching them to not be?! ...and all this for the sake of optics, for the sake of external approval, for the sake of ...hopefully fitting in.

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Why I Became a CODE Model Coach™

Why I Became a CODE Model Coach™

In living my life through the WEL-Systems® paradigm I have discovered the immensity of my power. By engaging this process, my Life has transformed. From the conversations I am having, to the people I befriend, to the way I interpret Life: it has all transformed. Fundamental to all this has been the transformation of my perception of what a human being is; what consciousness is; what Life is. I have no sense of any complete "answers", and yet I notice myself continuously asking bigger and bigger questions.

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Some of my most cherished pieces…


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How CODE Model Coaching transforms lives

“I am the first of my long line ancestors afforded the freedom to be able to choose, to create my life in whichever way it is meaningful for me in each unfolding moment. What a gift I have given mySelf — one I am eternally grateful for and intend to honour, as if my life depends on it, because it does.” 

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Dear Declan: A love letter to my son

“I am choosing to write these letters and post them publicly because I know I am not alone in what I see unfolding “out there”. I know I am not the only mother who is deeply concerned. And… I know that I choose not to hide in the closet, pretending, because there is no power there.”

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Transcending A Life of Mediocrity

“What else is possible when you embrace the fundamental lie that plagues our global cultural beliefs? Everything is peachy out there and if you feel anything but numb to all the (utterly indisputable) bullshit, then there’s something wrong with you.”

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How this process changes lives

“Today, I know well that the past does not serve me. It helped shape me, it has provided me with an opportunity to learn more about myself, and it does not define me. I know, with every single breath, I can choose choices that serve me, as I am, in this moment.”

8 DAY e-COURSE:

ACCELERATED EVOLUTION

Here’s how you slow down…and listen to the whispers of your inner truth.

Paradoxically, it is in slowing down that you accelerate your evolution!

LET'S BE PEN PALS

LET'S BE PEN PALS —