You cannot force alignment — surrender then choose.
As many of you know by now, I have chosen to push the pause button in everything I am creating and giving myself the space I need to be in order for the clarity to descend into a world of matter.
I have noticed that the more I pushed hard to force things to align, the more things misaligned, and the more miserable I felt -- this is particularly true of anything technical, like my website and email automations (no matter the experts I consulted or the thousands of dollars I've spent to manage these problems).
Because fear of getting wrong has been the driver, I've been getting it wrong. LOL, I don't make the rules of the universe ...
The thing is, we cannot force alignment -- we either are, or we are not aligned.
When we are not aligned but hope to be, we push. We try to fit together pieces of the puzzle that don't belong. We spend far more energy to go around in circles and create more of the same, amplified.
And when we are aligned, movement and flow becomes a way of life. We manifest that which we envision because clarity is leading. Alignment feels ease-full. It feels congruent. It feels certain, without a story.
In this moment, I can feel the immensity of the power of letting go. There is nothing to do. There is nothing to fix. There is nothing to figure out. There is nothing to plan. There is nothing to manage. All there is to do is notice, and let go ...
What in your life are you holding on to so tightly that you are squeezing the Life-Force out of it?
Living from an internally referenced point is not easy, and yet it is life-enriching, life-giving, life-affirming.
I am blessed to know the power of living from this fecund space of power, potential, and possibility that is available by living the WEL-Systems® way.
The women I work with are fucking incredible. Curious as to how the three women (of six) who had signed up for the yearlong responded to my having chosen to pause?
"If you didn't honour your truth, how could you be an example for us. Take the time you need, I'm still in when you're ready."
"I appreciate your vulnerability, and your pause"
"I appreciate your commitment but deeply honor your authenticity in deciding to postpone this."
How freaking fortunate am I to be surrounded by such incredible women!?
And the truth of it all, I created it through the choices I make -- when those choices are rooted in realness, life is good ...
RELATED RESOURCES to help you in your evolutionary journey of Self-discovery…
👉 This 3 minute audio file by Louise LeBrun talks about the power of raising children who are internally referenced -- honouring ourself vs. what you think they should honour, working hard, and letting go. So. Fucking. Good. If you want more, dive in to these (worth every single penny).
👉 For those who are curious about the process of living from the inside-out, boundaried, start with these audio files. Each under 10 minutes.
👉 If you are interested in the power of the Crone exploration, these audio files are a gift from Louise LeBrun.
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