Revelations &

Choice Points

“It’s not our intellect or our knowledge that will change our lives; it is our willingness and ability to ENGAGE!”

Louise LeBrun

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Secrets & Lies are Killing Us: A Whispers from Within™ invitation for exploration

Secrets & Lies are Killing Us: A Whispers from Within™ invitation for exploration

Secrets and lies.In my many, many years of engaging with others, these are the underpinnings of illness of body, mind and Spirit.We are killing ourselves by refusing to set them free.- Louise LeBrun

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A Mother's Transformation: The impact of embracing the Crone (testimonial)

A Mother's Transformation: The impact of embracing the Crone (testimonial)

Looking back on the mom I was to the mom I am now. Massive difference. It’s not perfect and never will be and that’s ok. It was never supposed to be perfect. My old parts were supposed to move and integrate and my daughter has kept that going.I was so caught up in the external of what’s the best way to do x. Now I decide as I go what works and what doesn’t. What’s authentic for us in each moment as we become more. I direct that. I have so much more trust in what I feel is right for us in each moment. I think my daughter feels that as well.

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Ditch the content: Here's what to embrace, instead.

Ditch the content: Here's what to embrace, instead.

If you are sick and tired of managing your reality rather than creating it, I invite you to consider the paradigm shift that moves you from the trap of content to the exploration of process and discovery of context. Raise your thinking UP logical levels and watch your life transform! What's the alternative? Self-destruction...?It is all a matter of choice ...

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A Mother’s Internal Cues Matter to Our Children’s Evolution

A Mother’s Internal Cues Matter to Our Children’s Evolution

Children are intimately fine-tuned to the inner state of their mothers. It is the state of our mothers growing up that shows us the appropriate responses to the world. So if the mother dissociates (the I AM that she is disappears), children sense that and respond accordingly by developing their adaptive strategies to cope with their environment. 

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What is WEL-Systems®?

What is WEL-Systems®?

Living the WEL-Systems process is available to all of us; and, it is not for the faint of heart. It takes worshiping Truth to stay with it. There is always, in all ways, a higher order truth available. Questions is, how much do you desire to seek it? How willing are you to let go of the lies your hold on to, in the form of stories, in order to create space inside your body for the wave (the truth) that I AM (we each are) to be in perpetual flow?

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Women and Power: My life is not a democracy

Women and Power: My life is not a democracy

As I type that, I am aware of the multiplicity of bullshit that lives between manifesting a meaningful reality and habitually responding to the same old.In the reality that I live in now, I am so comfortable deciphering the bullshit from the Truth of my experience. And, I place all the value on the truth of my experience, NOT the cultural beliefs, values and attitudes everyone else around me buys into.Fear, rage, outrage, hopelessness, despair, and shame are running the show of the vast majority of people ‘out there’. Everyone waiting for someone to come save them from themselves. If I were to subscribe to their ideology, I’d be living from that space, too. As Declan likes to say recently: Definitely No.

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Letting Go of Our Illusions and Embracing Authenticity: A Different Way of Being

Letting Go of Our Illusions and Embracing Authenticity: A Different Way of Being

As I have stayed conversation after conversation in this paradigm we call WEL-Systems, I discover and integrate deeper and deeper layers that allow me own the totality of my truth – even when it’s “ugly”. And let me tell you, when it comes to uncovering self-manipulations that go on in the name of family, things get really ugly. And in that, a whole world of internal freedom opens up, because once you give yourself permission to know, you can’t unknow.

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The Cool Crone that I AM

The Cool Crone that I AM

Since I have embraced fire as the Life Force that nourishes me, it has meant delving into every nook and cranny of how I hold my fire so I intentionally digest the kind of fire that takes from me and mindfully nourish the one that sustains the vibrancy of my being.This process has demanded embracing perpetual letting go. Of old roles, strategies, culturally conditioned identities … and all that comes not-so-neatly packaged with THAT.

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The Subtle Art of Self-Manipulation

The Subtle Art of Self-Manipulation

Self-manipulation is an interesting thing. It is so easy to never have to notice, because, of course, there are far too many external manipulations going on -- all of which are easier to notice than those we have internalized against ourselves. Yet it is in the naming it that we claim it.

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Some of my most cherished pieces…


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How CODE Model Coaching transforms lives

“I am the first of my long line ancestors afforded the freedom to be able to choose, to create my life in whichever way it is meaningful for me in each unfolding moment. What a gift I have given mySelf — one I am eternally grateful for and intend to honour, as if my life depends on it, because it does.” 

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Dear Declan: A love letter to my son

“I am choosing to write these letters and post them publicly because I know I am not alone in what I see unfolding “out there”. I know I am not the only mother who is deeply concerned. And… I know that I choose not to hide in the closet, pretending, because there is no power there.”

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Transcending A Life of Mediocrity

“What else is possible when you embrace the fundamental lie that plagues our global cultural beliefs? Everything is peachy out there and if you feel anything but numb to all the (utterly indisputable) bullshit, then there’s something wrong with you.”

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How this process changes lives

“Today, I know well that the past does not serve me. It helped shape me, it has provided me with an opportunity to learn more about myself, and it does not define me. I know, with every single breath, I can choose choices that serve me, as I am, in this moment.”

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ACCELERATED EVOLUTION

Here’s how you slow down…and listen to the whispers of your inner truth.

Paradoxically, it is in slowing down that you accelerate your evolution!

LET'S BE PEN PALS

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