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“It’s not our intellect or our knowledge that will change our lives; it is our willingness and ability to ENGAGE!”
Louise LeBrun
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Sensuality & Shame
I am always so intrigued and in love with the expressed sensuality of little ones. To be in the presence of that expression of Innocence, rejoicing in discovery, is a sacred gift. It is a reminder of how simple it could be, how joyous, how immensely precious.And, simultaneously, it is a reminder of just how fucking few people are allowed to rejoice in it...
Drama & Trauma: How else then, shall I live?
Drama lives at all logical levels. Drama at the environment behaviour level might be something like messing in people's lives to create a particular outcome.At the strategy level, all the rage, fear, shame, hopelessness, etc.At the beliefs, values and attitudes it could be things like righteousness or stagnation.I wonder ... What does drama look like above the choice point?
How to get to know the essence of "you": Nassim Haramein & Quantum TLC™
How do you get to know your Self? Your essence? The truth of the totality of who and what you are?How do you do that when your mind and body are littered with untruth? With the imposed beliefs about you that you have internalized as real when you were a mere baby still running the show? Quantum TLC is what I intimately know and Nassim Haramain is talking about (different language, same process).
What nausea and dizziness taught me about myself: What it means to “stay” in the tough conversations with yourself
In the quantum paradigm all is divinely perfect, information in flow that is inviting me to pay attention because there is a message here for me to discover. Knowing myself as Creation Out of Deep Energy is the key to my ability and willingness to stay. Without needing to figure anything out. Simply choosing to be with what’s presenting and allowing it to be in flow.
Video: ENOUGH! is enough...
There's nothing subtle about domestic violence. And it won't ever go away unless women stop pretending what is, ain't so. I wonder ... when is enough, enough?!
Domestic Violence & the Women who Stay
What I’ve come to discover in my few years of working with women, is that all the women were taught how to pretend. Manipulate their inner cues to be able to tolerate the outer ‘reality’. Manipulate, too, the outer circumstances so people think their lives are “perfect”. Yet our inner world is in total and utter turmoil. So is that of our children.
What I've Discovered About Setting Boundaries
Wise words by a wise woman: "I'm not settling for half of anything!"
Demands of Intimacy
I can never be more intimate with another than I have given myself permission to be with myself. In that, I must be in willing to be with my own disagreements inside myself to the point where I integrate the double binds and anchors and lies. I must choose to remain comfortable in my discomfort of not-knowing and uncertainty yet give myself permission to BE in all that IS. I must create enough space inside myself to hold all the paradoxical truths as equally real in order to integrate them. I must be willing to take sacred responsibility, inside myself, about my contribution to the external reality I am living.
On living with Curiosity and Surrendering Certainty: Because what we think we know is killing us
Curiosity, on the other hand, is an open ended state of being. “I don’t know” is a powerful, legitimate state of being that invites the unknown to become known. It is the state of creativity, of expansion, of evolution. It demands that we surrender that which we think we know in order to discover what it is that we yet don’t know.It is in the yet unknown that potential and possibility live.It is in the yet unknown that resourcefulness emerges from.
Some of my most cherished pieces…
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How CODE Model Coaching transforms lives
“I am the first of my long line ancestors afforded the freedom to be able to choose, to create my life in whichever way it is meaningful for me in each unfolding moment. What a gift I have given mySelf — one I am eternally grateful for and intend to honour, as if my life depends on it, because it does.”
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Dear Declan: A love letter to my son
“I am choosing to write these letters and post them publicly because I know I am not alone in what I see unfolding “out there”. I know I am not the only mother who is deeply concerned. And… I know that I choose not to hide in the closet, pretending, because there is no power there.”
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Transcending A Life of Mediocrity
“What else is possible when you embrace the fundamental lie that plagues our global cultural beliefs? Everything is peachy out there and if you feel anything but numb to all the (utterly indisputable) bullshit, then there’s something wrong with you.”
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How this process changes lives
“Today, I know well that the past does not serve me. It helped shape me, it has provided me with an opportunity to learn more about myself, and it does not define me. I know, with every single breath, I can choose choices that serve me, as I am, in this moment.”
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ACCELERATED EVOLUTION
Here’s how you slow down…and listen to the whispers of your inner truth.
Paradoxically, it is in slowing down that you accelerate your evolution!