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“It’s not our intellect or our knowledge that will change our lives; it is our willingness and ability to ENGAGE!”
Louise LeBrun
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Falling for the Illusion: What you resist, persists.
At that moment, I found myself feeling totally disoriented and confused, as if the time / space continuum had shifted and, somehow, did not apply to me.
As I type this, I find myself realizing that …this is how it feels when one awakens to an alternative reality they were not prepared for, yet there it is.
This is how it feels when we are so certain that we know what we know and then are exposed to a different reality that shows us otherwise.
This is how it feels when we live cloaked inside our worldview, resisting “the unknown” to penetrate because we would rather feel like we already know.
I think this is the state we are desperately seeking to avoid ever feeling. Because it’s disorienting. Because it’s confusing. Because it’s uncertain.
And our cultural conditioning has taught us that uncertainty = dangerous. This makes sense when we are four and left to fend for ourselves, however, it becomes an anchor of a double-bind that keeps us unable to differentiate.
The Joy of the Journey: There is always more
Few people really grok that there is no “done”. There is no finish line. There is no there to get to. There is only the here & now. The moment we are in, engaged with Presence and Intention (or not).
When our moment is engaged with Presence and Intention, our life transforms. How we show up in the world transforms. Who we become transforms. Who we are capable of becoming transforms.
In this juicy conversation with Celine Burlock, we delve deep into the territory of all things accelerated personal evolution, what it takes to rebirth ourselves, and what gets in the way. So many people settle for “good enough” and what happens is they lose track of what matters to them: connection to their Truth / Self / Signal / I AM.
CODE Model Coaching™: It's about how you choose, not the choice itself
That is what trusting what the full measure of the godForce we each are looks like. Never betraying the Truth of my moment, nor giving directives on how to live your meaningful life. Truly, my greatest gift to each person that crosses my path is empowering them to the process of choice, while being indifferent to the choices they make. I trust this makes sense.
A Joy-Full Mother's Day
Instead of teaching our children WHAT to think, let's teach them HOW to think!We have become really good at teaching (through modeling) the content of our culture to our children. Be polite and say thanks, even if you don't mean it. Otherwise, to speak the truth of your experience (not-thankful) is to be considered rude. So... we teach our children to be insincere and live in contradictory internal states so they don't offend another. We teach them to be dishonest so they can manage an external appearance labeled "polite" and "good". We teach them to shun their truth so they do not have to face the shame imposed on them by authority.In essence, we teach our children that shunning themselves is better than living in fear of being shamed by another.I can't help but wonder ....what is the intelligence of that?! What is the fucking point?! How can we expect our children to grow up to be sincere inside themselves if we are teaching them to not be?! ...and all this for the sake of optics, for the sake of external approval, for the sake of ...hopefully fitting in.
Wounded Masculine: The Silent Pain Of Toxic Masculinity
To be where I am, I've gifted myself with the permission to allow myself to see through different perceptual filters. The patriarchal narrative never worked for me; and yet I bought into it and felt stuck in my inability to "figure it out". Something was wrong with me. So I tried to escape "me". Now I know so much better! The process of continuing to clear the muck is essential, because tapping into the messages of the Signal from Self through the body has been critical to my healing, finding balance, self-evolution.
Some of my most cherished pieces…
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How CODE Model Coaching transforms lives
“I am the first of my long line ancestors afforded the freedom to be able to choose, to create my life in whichever way it is meaningful for me in each unfolding moment. What a gift I have given mySelf — one I am eternally grateful for and intend to honour, as if my life depends on it, because it does.”
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Dear Declan: A love letter to my son
“I am choosing to write these letters and post them publicly because I know I am not alone in what I see unfolding “out there”. I know I am not the only mother who is deeply concerned. And… I know that I choose not to hide in the closet, pretending, because there is no power there.”
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Transcending A Life of Mediocrity
“What else is possible when you embrace the fundamental lie that plagues our global cultural beliefs? Everything is peachy out there and if you feel anything but numb to all the (utterly indisputable) bullshit, then there’s something wrong with you.”
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How this process changes lives
“Today, I know well that the past does not serve me. It helped shape me, it has provided me with an opportunity to learn more about myself, and it does not define me. I know, with every single breath, I can choose choices that serve me, as I am, in this moment.”
8 DAY e-COURSE:
ACCELERATED EVOLUTION
Here’s how you slow down…and listen to the whispers of your inner truth.
Paradoxically, it is in slowing down that you accelerate your evolution!