There is something magical that happens when I stay actively engaged in WEL-Systems® based conversations. Because we are multifaceted and multidimensional beings, there is no template on "how to" live life to the fullest. As such, we must come to make peace with the fact that living fully is a process that we must choose… Continue reading Living as a multifaceted, multidimentional being.
Our governance is intentionally schizophrenic. The more unpredictable, the more last minute, the more they can keep us on our toes and walking on eggshells, the more legitimate we believe their lies to be because we live in a constant state of anxiety, unpredictability, uncertainty over what’s next. The whole point is, don’t get used to anything!
There is a certain kind of pure joy, ever-flowing sweet nectar of sparkling feelings that I feel when I know a woman has just come out of her cocoon. It's a feeling of humbled ecstasy, of grounded majesty! It's like my whole body lights up and vibrates electricity outward in a beautiful endless spiral around my body that surrounds me and nourishes me because I know...this is consciousness awakened to herSelf! That moment of recognition of another's surrender to herSelf is precisely what Quantum TLC™ is.
To stay in the story of what "should" have been would mean that I would have to deprive myself of my own life lessons, thus my own evolution. To stay in the story of what "should" have been would mean to stay in the habit and deny myself the truth of what is. To stay in the story of what "should" have been would mean to sacrifice what is for an idealized, imagined version that isn't. In essence, it would mean I betray the truth that lives inside of me in favour of the story; it would mean pretending, glossing over, shutting down. It would mean self-betrayal. And I don't live like that anymore.
Transformation only occurs the moment I reclaim the truth of my experience, let go of the story/judgment/intellect, and choose wisely from the place of my emerging identity: who am I capable of becoming? And then, when I least expect it, the family systems strategies creep up.
I take everything that comes to my awareness as an opportunity for growth. Call it disease, call it discomfort, call it life, call it death, call it Covid-19. It really doesn’t matter. It’s all a messenger of how I’m choosing to live my life. And, it’s all an opportunity, in this breath, to make a different choice. An opportunity to make an expansive, meaningful choice that aligns with who and what I know mySelf to be.
What matters to me now, increasingly more than ever, is my fully connected Presence. To know, in the moment, to say yes or to say no. To know, in the moment, to stay or to leave. To know, in the moment, exactly where Stela is. Without attachment to story, without attachment to past, without attachment to future, without attachment to outcome. Just me, bare, raw, Present. Here. Now.
When I made the decision that I simply must cut my son's hair right freaking NOW, I also recognized within myself "this is my pattern". I knew where this was headed, been there many times before.